Before the Phone Rings

Well a few weeks ago, we receive our Resource Parent (aka foster parent) license in the mail. Yeah!!! We've haven't had and didn't expect to get a call before Christmas, so we just enjoyed our time with our family and friends. Now the journey really begins. There is so much work we really needed to do in order to be prepared for our first placement, which could happen at anytime. I'm talking beyond "getting the room together" type of things. I'm talking about what daycare center are they going to? Which ones accept the subsidies? How much are we going to have to pay out of pocket (stay tuned for the next episode for this topic!) ? What about pediatricians? Are they accepting new patients? Do they accept medicaid or insurance that I chose for the child? What questions should I ask the placement worker? Will I be ready when the phone rings?????

To my advantage, I'm glad that I conducted some research ahead of time, which made today's adventure a lot easier. Previously, I went on my state's website and searched for approved daycare, child care rate, after school programs, and pediatricians and dentists throughout the state. I went through the list and narrowed down the ones in my travel path to work. All I had to do today was contact these providers, get some general information about their center, rates, availability and schedule an appointment for a tour!!!! I have two scheduled for tomorrow and one on Wednesday. This should be fun!

As far as the questions are concern, I created a form of questions that were derived from a pamphlet given to us by our advocacy group. These "initial intake" questions will determine which situations we would say yes to on the spot or which we'll have to consult each other on. My husband and I basically went over the "criteria" questions together so there won't be any confusion when the call is received, no matter who receives it. We are going to place the forms in a binder labeled "Initial Intake Forms" and have it in a general area for immediate access.

Progress made and I believe we are "ready," but the work is far from over. However, since we've planned ahead in anticipation for "the call," we'll be able to focus on the real task ahead: the Children!!!

Thanks for Reading,